I deleted my profiles last winter and told myself I was done. I started to suspect the problem was where I was looking, not who I am. I'd done the self-work, read the books, and still had nothing to show on Sundays. I logged off the big apps and chose to meet Asian women and the first match alone justified the whole experiment. I came in expecting nothing and stayed for the conversations. For once I get to be the example and not the exception.
I deleted my profiles last winter and told myself I was done. I started to suspect the problem was where I was looking, not who I am. I'd done the self-work, read the books, and still had nothing to show on Sundays. I logged off the big apps and chose to meet Asian women and the first match alone justified the whole experiment. I came in expecting nothing and stayed for the conversations. For once I get to be the example and not the exception.